So many people are walking around today with a hole in their soul. Some things that come together for other people and seem perfectly natural, don't come together for the children of Narcissistic parents.
I find that most people don't let themselves*feel* this much, they're so confused about so many *normal* situations, that they hang out at the edge of their own shadow. It manifests in so many different ways for them; it can be mental illness or physical illness or extreme trust issues, etc., etc. Some things just don't fit right. It's almost unconscious except that it reveals itself in a raging rush of energy and tears. Where did that come from?
I recommended this book to my sister who was so relieved and was finally validated in finding that what she felt all these years and the narcissistic abuse she suffered, was indeed REAL. It's a *light bulb* moment for many. And until it's understood, it can't be healed. This book is an eye opener and will help the journey from there to now. I hope everyone gets a chance to read books on Narcissistic, Histrionic and Borderline Personality disorders. They'll be amazed and yet comforted to know it wasn't THEM.
As Alice Miller tells us *most abused children do not believe in the 4th commandment.*
As well they shouldn't.
The reason it is so important to read about personality disorders is because most people don't know why they've been treated so poorly throughout their lifetimes. They don't understand why parents could behave the way they did and in most instances, are still behaving badly. The age of 40-60 is when the victims of this abuse start to think about it's effects in depth. This is the age and this is the time when those feelings of abandonment, worthlessness and fear will surface. It's terrifying.
If you wish to start with a book, I can recommend this one. It's not just for daughters; the message will get through to all souls and it'll be a rewarding and inspirational discovery.
My research shows that most all offspring of Narcissistic and Personality disordered parents inherently develop adrenal malfunction along with hypothyroidism, They seem to go hand in hand. If you see yourself in this book, take the time to find a good doctor who understands this connection and who will treat with natural desiccated thyroid extract. Once you learn to self treat, you'll be able to teach others.
Help yourself to heal and get your life back.
Personality disordered people are toxic !
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